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“Humara Ashirwad Hai: Ladka Hi Hoga” — Wrapped in Love, Drenched in Patriarchy
A personal reflection on patriarchy, internalised norms, and the quiet unease we carry... Recently, at a family gathering, I heard a common blessing being offered to a newly married couple: “Humara ashirwad hai: ladka hi hoga.” (“Our blessing is: you will have a son.”) It wasn’t just a simple wish for a child—it was a specific and pointed desire for a male child. This was not the first time I’d heard such a thing, but that day, something in me stirred differently. I
Harpreet Kaur Arora
Jun 283 min read
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